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thedivav

Ladies

you all have been my rock the past months hell couple years i think... we are getting married in our house on Saturday

 i am getting excited, i am ready to be married to my best friend

through all our ups and downs

my mom is here, and we are cooking for the holiday tomorrow and then getting extra pretty on friday....

my mua is not going to be in town so i have to find a new one or do it myself 

but you know what i dont care... i am gonna be beat to the Heavens 

I love you ladies so much 

thanks for all your encouragement, help, listening ears....etc...

*hugs* 

V

tirathemrs

Awwwwwww honey i wish you the absolute best wedding day in the universe... I pray all works out with no hiccups. Cant wait to see pics of you and hubby just relax and enjoy your day because after all it is your special day..

Smooches

thedivav

Thanks i am going to try  

i know i need to get the mani pedi and eyebrows done....i think i want some trany lashes from mac lol 

i am finally starting relax and enjoy it lol 

LeciaB

congrats  love!!! THIS IS YOUR WEEKEND 

mrsdweaver

Enjoy your weekend, holiday, and most of all your WEDDING DAY!!! I hope it's all you want it to be.

island07b2b

Have a wonderful wedding event V.  Looking forward to your recap.  Many blessings to you and your soon-to-be DH.  ***hugs***

Tchavon1984

Your big day is going to be perfect many many blessings! So happy for you

thedivav

if it was not for bad luck.... 

yeah.. still engaged.... 

very long story... 

i am going to be like Shug... I'S MARRIED NAH!!! no more planning i give up 

tirathemrs

WHAT HAPPENED VEE..... OMG YOU NEED TO CALL ME HONEY 

thedivav

It started Thanksgiving when he was on call for work.. he works in IT....

he leaves after eating dinner... OH I DID GET MY RING  

FINALLY!! 

Friday he is emailing me that he does not feel well... 

i tell him just come home we have a bunch of stuff to do for Saturday....

after about 4 i didnt hear from him again... i am panicking....

i dont hear from him until 1.30 am that he is in the hospital with walking pneumonia

then he tells me his cousin who has been battling cancer.... died...

my heart sank.. i said we would come visit him when the sun comes up.... 

 his phone died... i called the hospital 

they said he was not there

we call 10 hospitals in the area... no body has him... 

i am just numb...

my mom is going off... 

on sunday mom makes me get out of bed... we run errands

i am still calling.. nothing

this is not normal... we talk every day now i am beside myself.... 

then i get sick.. sore throat....

monday morning i go to work to get my contractors their checks and get my billing done

i call the police down where he lives... they drive by his house... nothing... no answer no car

i leave work at 12 mind you i am sick and worried...

he finally text me... i am in the hospital phone died.... 

mind you the hospital i called 3 times *livid dot com* 

i go home take a nap.... 

he calls 

we meet him at his house.... 

mom goes off...on him... 

i finally get home late monday night... in bed until Wednesday

tirathemrs

island07b2b

Oh my good V.  Lordy girl.  I am sending you the biggest virtual HUG I can find.  If you want to talk just let me know.  

thedivav

island07b2b thanks i am just trying to fight this cold and help him get through the next week when the funeral is here in md.. i am ready for the better part of marriage cause we have been through the worse... lol 

mrsdweaver

Oh my goodness! I can understand your frustration in all that confusion, but the best is yet to come! It'll all be so wonderful when you say "I do!"

M1ssJ

omg!!! The devil is sooooo busy! I am glad you too are ok and my prayers for a speedy recovery

[Deleted User]

Oh V.  I'm so sorry.   I am glad that you found each other though.   I would take mom back to the hospital and unleash her on whoever handles patient services.      Hope you both feel better soon!

thedivav

@sultryzulu

thanks 

i am almost back to normal he is feeling better