Today I found out that my family has chosen to have my grandma's Memorial at my wedding venue. It used to be a grange hall over 10 years ago. Traditionally family memorials have always taken place at a grange hall a couple towns over. My family knew this is where my wedding will be when they made these arrangements. My mom reminded my dad that it's my wedding venue and he was unwilling to talk to his siblings about it and didn't think it was a big deal, they have already put a small deposit down. Am I overreacting in that I'm very upset that I'll be getting married in 6 months at the same place that my grandma basically had her funeral? After all its a wedding venue, not a grange hall or a typical place to hold a memorial.