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Re-configuring our house

We're renting a tiny house that we're not too fond of. It's been almost two years since we moved in. There's no basement, no garage, no storage, and we're beyond capacity. We almost bought a house but that fell through because our company has been acquired and we might lose our jobs this spring, so renting a bigger house is also something we've looked into but seems pretty out of the question for right now. 

Our bedroom and "master bathroom" are tiny, so I have to get ready in the "office." That entire room is pretty much only used for me to get ready in, and for my shoes, and half my clothes (the other half of my clothes are in our bedroom). Things are just cramped and annoying. 

There's a third bedroom that was the guest room. We've decided that since friends only come stay with us a couple times a year, it's stupid to take up an entire room as a guest room. We could use that space in a much better way. So now FI's parents are coming to take the bed (because that room is also tiny, so a full-sized bed pretty much takes all the space). 

I feel like all I do is go through the house, re-organize, and take loads and loads of stuff to Goodwill, and it doesn't make much difference. Part of the problem is that we both have hobbies. The entire guest room closet is packed full of our supplies; my painting stuff, canvases, tarps, his tools, etc etc etc. I feel like there's a better way to do this and I'm just missing it. It doesn't make sense that with just the two of us and our dogs, a three bedroom house is not enough space. 

What can I do better? Who else deals with tiny spaces? Any suggestions? (Especially for kitchen and bathroom storage). We literally step on each other if we're both in the kitchen, and we already bought one of those rolling cart things, but of course we're not using it in a good way. We just pile mail on it. Help! 
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  • I watch HGTV and I always want to shake people that it's not always the space, maybe sometimes you need to just get rid of the clutter. Haven't used it/worn it in a year? Goodwill. Broken to someday be fixed? Toss it.  I would start there. 

    I think getting rid of a second bed is a good move. 
  • Air mattresses are great for guests, and don't encourage them to stay long! ;-)

    I just went through a major closet purge this weekend - it helped immensely to have a (much more stylish) friend come and judge my clothes!

    If you have "stuff" that you need to keep but rarely use, I would consider renting a storage unit.  If you never go back for the stuff, you know exactly how much money you are wasting by hanging on to it!

     

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  • My condo is SO small - but FI and I wanted to stay in DC, so it is what it is.  It's 2 (very tiny) bedrooms and 3 bathrooms, but it's under 800 square feet for all that, and 2 people can't stand side by side in the kitchen.  It feels a little bigger because it's 2 floors (the living room, kitchen, and 1 bathroom is upstairs, the bedrooms and 2 bathrooms are downstairs).

    I always have to get ready in the guest room.  My bathroom is actually connected to that room, and my closet is in the guest room, so it makes more sense.  We don't have a "master" bathroom, but FI has the one connected to our bedroom because the closet connected to the guestroom is way bigger.  So I totally feel you there - it kind of sucks.

    In our guest bedroom, we put a pull-out couch that has no arms on it, which is REALLY great. It pulls into a full bed when we need it to, but because it has no arms, it really doesn't take much space. We also have a small desk in that room, and we just have to move the chair a little when we pull the couch into a bed.

    One thing that's been a total saving grace is that the upstairs bathroom shower had been turned into a closet.  It's so weird, but really is the most storage we have.  The only other storage space is under our bed, which is already completely packed with wedding stuff. 

    It does help that FI and I don't have hobbies that take up a lot of space.  We mostly just walk around the city as a hobby, so we don't have that stuff.  I can't imagine putting painting stuff or tools in our condo.

     

    Good luck with it!  As much as it sucks living in a tiny space, I will be SO SO sad when we have to sell ours to get a bigger house in the suburbs.  I love being a city person! 

  • DH and I are in the process of organizing the kitchen. We just got wire shelves (kind of like you would use in a locker but made for cabinets) and under-shelf baskets (they hang on the shelf above) for our cabinets. It gives us extra space in the cabinets. One wire shelf is positioned over our dinner plates and holds coffee mugs and bowls. It works great and has at least doubled the usable capacity in the cabinets. Plus, no more giant teetering stacks of stuff or having to pull out 10 things to get to the one on the bottom.
  • We had a two bedroom apartment for a while. Our second bedroom literally turned into a big storage closet for tools. Not recommended.

    What type of storage things do you have now? I like to buy cheap dressers on Craigslist when I need more room for clothes. Do you have organizers for your kitchen and bathroom cabinets? There are a ton of options for that. Like smalls shelves to put in them. Or pot stands.

    We also bought a bunch of under bed storage boxes for out of season clothes.

    I would also look into buying some sturdy metal shelves for the shoes, tools, or painting supplies.
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  • novella1186novella1186 member
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    penguin44 said:
    We had a two bedroom apartment for a while. Our second bedroom literally turned into a big storage closet for tools. Not recommended. What type of storage things do you have now? I like to buy cheap dressers on Craigslist when I need more room for clothes. Do you have organizers for your kitchen and bathroom cabinets? There are a ton of options for that. Like smalls shelves to put in them. Or pot stands. We also bought a bunch of under bed storage boxes for out of season clothes. I would also look into buying some sturdy metal shelves for the shoes, tools, or painting supplies.
    We have a big wire rack/shelf thing in the laundry area for kitchen over-flow. Then we have a bunch of those under-the-bed storage things. I put all my summer clothes away in a big trunk during the winter, which I usually then drive an hour and half to my parents' house to haul it up to their attic. But the last time I did this, my dad was an asshole to me about it. Because apparently having a trunk stored in a giant attic to which he never goes is a huge inconvenience to him? So now my "seasonal clothes" trunk is crammed in the corner of the office. No idea where to put it. 

    I also have hanging shoe racks on doors and hanging shelves in one of the closets. We bought a mini file cabinet for all our important papers so they're not stacked everywhere (like contracts, loan documents, etc). Hm... what else... lol 

    ETA: we also have tall skinny shelves in the end of the guest room closet for my painting supplies, which have overflowed onto the floor and the closet shelf. Ugh. 
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  • DH and I are in the process of organizing the kitchen. We just got wire shelves (kind of like you would use in a locker but made for cabinets) and under-shelf baskets (they hang on the shelf above) for our cabinets. It gives us extra space in the cabinets. One wire shelf is positioned over our dinner plates and holds coffee mugs and bowls. It works great and has at least doubled the usable capacity in the cabinets. Plus, no more giant teetering stacks of stuff or having to pull out 10 things to get to the one on the bottom.
    I am intrigued by these kitchen shelves... Where did you buy yours? 

    One of my big frustrations is that we have two kitchen cabinets that are big but almost unusable cuz they're in the corner, so it's a really deep shelf but it's really hard to reach back in there. We use the biggest one for pots and pans with our baking dishes stuffed way in the back since we use them the least, but when I need one I have to literally climb inside the cabinet to get one. 
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  • FI and I also rent a small house. It is two bedrooms, no basement, no garage, and one bathroom. It was built in the 1950's and is very practical.

    The master bed room is a little bigger than the second. We have a queen sized bed and each have a dresser in there (so two). My closet is also in there since FI leaves before me.

    The second room in a guest bedroom/office/whatever we need it to be room. We have the computer desk, FI's closet and a futon. Right now, all of our wedding stuff is piled in there.

    We are lucky to have a screened in back porch and an attic. Anything that is not used often is in the attic. Like Christmas decorations, golf clubs (even though we use them every week), wrapping paper and boxes, painting stuff. It gets it out of the way. The screened in back porch holds the washer and dryer and dog kennels.

    With so little space I realized my sanity is worth more than "stuff." Anything that we don't use, I give away. I haven't worn those clothes in over a year? time to go to Goodwill. Shelving is completely necessary and does not take much room. Get a shelf unit for a whole wall and store your hobby stuff there. FI is bad about sentimentality and wanting to keep every little thing, no matter how old or the condition. Eventually I just have to tell him that we don't neeed it and it is going to stay in a box for the rest of forever, so why even keep it? Just purge everything you don't need or use.

  • emmaaa said:
    FI and I also rent a small house. It is two bedrooms, no basement, no garage, and one bathroom. It was built in the 1950's and is very practical.

    The master bed room is a little bigger than the second. We have a queen sized bed and each have a dresser in there (so two). My closet is also in there since FI leaves before me.

    The second room in a guest bedroom/office/whatever we need it to be room. We have the computer desk, FI's closet and a futon. Right now, all of our wedding stuff is piled in there.

    We are lucky to have a screened in back porch and an attic. Anything that is not used often is in the attic. Like Christmas decorations, golf clubs (even though we use them every week), wrapping paper and boxes, painting stuff. It gets it out of the way. The screened in back porch holds the washer and dryer and dog kennels.

    With so little space I realized my sanity is worth more than "stuff." Anything that we don't use, I give away. I haven't worn those clothes in over a year? time to go to Goodwill. Shelving is completely necessary and does not take much room. Get a shelf unit for a whole wall and store your hobby stuff there. FI is bad about sentimentality and wanting to keep every little thing, no matter how old or the condition. Eventually I just have to tell him that we don't neeed it and it is going to stay in a box for the rest of forever, so why even keep it? Just purge everything you don't need or use.
    This is an excellent idea. I'll have to make a trip to the hardware store to check out some shelves. 

    I'm pretty ruthless when it comes to getting rid of stuff. I did a major closet purge this fall and even got rid of a lot of shoes, which is hard for me, but if I haven't worn them in the last year then why do I have them? 

    My FI is the same way though. He wants to keep everything. He has a stack of boxes that haven't been opened since we moved in. I keep telling him to throw them all away and not even look inside. He keeps saying "No, I need to go through them and see what's in there. I need to keep some of it." Uh... you haven't even opened them in two years dude. There's clearly nothing important in there. Drives me nuts! 
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  • You have too many clothes if you need to move summer clothes to a trunk and haul them somewhere. I live in MA where I definitely need summer clothes and winter clothes, and they never get removed. My dresser is tank tops, shorts, t shirts, pjs, underwear/socks and my closet is dress pants, jeans, sweaters, nice work blouses. Hoodies and jackets are in the closet by the front door.

    I put those $30 bookshelves from Walmart in my closets and they are amazing. They allow me to stack shoes, boots, sheets without it being a pile on the floor of the closet.

    Honestly, I've lived in 7 different apartments with roommates and no storage and I've never had a problem so it sounds like you just have too much crap. My best friend is like that, she's got an apartment to herself plus a storage unit full of the most random things- a camping grill, a kayak, a pasta maker, you name it. She never uses any of it.

                                                                     

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  • emmaaa said:
    FI and I also rent a small house. It is two bedrooms, no basement, no garage, and one bathroom. It was built in the 1950's and is very practical.

    The master bed room is a little bigger than the second. We have a queen sized bed and each have a dresser in there (so two). My closet is also in there since FI leaves before me.

    The second room in a guest bedroom/office/whatever we need it to be room. We have the computer desk, FI's closet and a futon. Right now, all of our wedding stuff is piled in there.

    We are lucky to have a screened in back porch and an attic. Anything that is not used often is in the attic. Like Christmas decorations, golf clubs (even though we use them every week), wrapping paper and boxes, painting stuff. It gets it out of the way. The screened in back porch holds the washer and dryer and dog kennels.

    With so little space I realized my sanity is worth more than "stuff." Anything that we don't use, I give away. I haven't worn those clothes in over a year? time to go to Goodwill. Shelving is completely necessary and does not take much room. Get a shelf unit for a whole wall and store your hobby stuff there. FI is bad about sentimentality and wanting to keep every little thing, no matter how old or the condition. Eventually I just have to tell him that we don't neeed it and it is going to stay in a box for the rest of forever, so why even keep it? Just purge everything you don't need or use.
    This is an excellent idea. I'll have to make a trip to the hardware store to check out some shelves. 

    I'm pretty ruthless when it comes to getting rid of stuff. I did a major closet purge this fall and even got rid of a lot of shoes, which is hard for me, but if I haven't worn them in the last year then why do I have them? 

    My FI is the same way though. He wants to keep everything. He has a stack of boxes that haven't been opened since we moved in. I keep telling him to throw them all away and not even look inside. He keeps saying "No, I need to go through them and see what's in there. I need to keep some of it." Uh... you haven't even opened them in two years dude. There's clearly nothing important in there. Drives me nuts! 
    This is my H.  We moved into our home over 3 years ago and he has boxes down in the basement that have just been sitting there.  I just want to chuck them all because if he hasn't taken anything out of them by now then there can't be anything in there worth keeping.

  • JaniV123JaniV123 member
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    I will be following this thread. I am in the same boat.U had a big room and lots of storage in my moms house. Moving into a tiny apartment, with lots of things from the landlord (it was practically move in, but things were old, dirty, broken, mismatched, etc so we have gotten new things) really shocks me.  And now we have the whole guest room closet filled with his crap. When and IF we renew our lease then we will tell him to take it all away. Our kitchen is sooo small and we need to find bathroom storage. ughh

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  • This thread is inspiring me to go through my whole house and chuck whatever we don't use. I also need to go buy lots of shelving and a dresser for our master bedroom.
  • If we could do more "vertical storage" it would help a lot, but our landlord doesn't want us drilling into the walls, for obvious reasons. So everything has to be free-standing, which usually isn't super tall. I'd rather have a really tall narrow shelf than a short wide shelf that takes up more floor space. But I also don't want to get crushed by a tall falling shelf so... oh well. 
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  • Tall bookshelves are awesome.  I have a couple 6 foot ones that were hand me downs from my parents from like 20 years ago.  They are in our 2nd junk bedroom and really help get clutter off the floor (we do have some books, but mostly other things).  Our kitchen is also tiny and I put a smaller open bookshelf against the end of the cabinets for serving dishes/blender/etc.  It's all things that we use frequently, but won't fit in our regular cabinets. 
  • cafarrie said:
    Tall bookshelves are awesome.  I have a couple 6 foot ones that were hand me downs from my parents from like 20 years ago.  They are in our 2nd junk bedroom and really help get clutter off the floor (we do have some books, but mostly other things).  Our kitchen is also tiny and I put a smaller open bookshelf against the end of the cabinets for serving dishes/blender/etc.  It's all things that we use frequently, but won't fit in our regular cabinets. 
    This is genius. I wish I had a spot to do this! The end of our cabinets is the little hall that leads to the laundry thing and it's already too narrow on its own :( 
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  • If we could do more "vertical storage" it would help a lot, but our landlord doesn't want us drilling into the walls, for obvious reasons. So everything has to be free-standing, which usually isn't super tall. I'd rather have a really tall narrow shelf than a short wide shelf that takes up more floor space. But I also don't want to get crushed by a tall falling shelf so... oh well. 
    Check out Ikea.  They have free standing wardrobe cabinets (Pax I believe is the name...http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/categories/departments/bedroom/19086/).  I bought 2 (one skinny and one pretty wide) to make another pantry in our kitchen.  They come in a few different heights, but mine are 8ft tall.  They have a shit ton of inserts such as drawers, metal baskets, shoe cubbies, shelves, hooks, etc, etc, etc that you can mix and match to make it work for whatever you want.  It may be somewhat of an initial cost but if you have a large blank wall you could fill it up with some cabinets and when you have doors it is so easy to just close them up and all your clutter and random stuff just disappears.

  • If we could do more "vertical storage" it would help a lot, but our landlord doesn't want us drilling into the walls, for obvious reasons. So everything has to be free-standing, which usually isn't super tall. I'd rather have a really tall narrow shelf than a short wide shelf that takes up more floor space. But I also don't want to get crushed by a tall falling shelf so... oh well. 
    I would get a couple of these tension mounted racks for hanging clothes - no screws required and easier to fit in tight places than a huge garment rack:

    And then line a whole wall in that spare room with these bad boys:

    Get varying sizes of plastic bins with lids that fit in the shelves and Tetris those suckers in. Color code them, label everything with masking tape, etc. Beautiful thing about those is when you're ready to move, everything's already packed! Label the spot on the shelf where everything goes, too - I find when something has a very specific "home," it's much easier to always put it away and feel organized. If you want to hide things, put sticky velcro onto a few curtains and attach to the top shelf.

    Think about alternate ways to store things too - all my hoodies are on an over-the-door towel hook (that has 8 hooks) inside the linen closet instead of on hangers/in a drawer. Same with scarves and tank tops inside my closet door.

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  • DH and I are in the process of organizing the kitchen. We just got wire shelves (kind of like you would use in a locker but made for cabinets) and under-shelf baskets (they hang on the shelf above) for our cabinets. It gives us extra space in the cabinets. One wire shelf is positioned over our dinner plates and holds coffee mugs and bowls. It works great and has at least doubled the usable capacity in the cabinets. Plus, no more giant teetering stacks of stuff or having to pull out 10 things to get to the one on the bottom.

    I am intrigued by these kitchen shelves... Where did you buy yours? 

    One of my big frustrations is that we have two kitchen cabinets that are big but almost unusable cuz they're in the corner, so it's a really deep shelf but it's really hard to reach back in there. We use the biggest one for pots and pans with our baking dishes stuffed way in the back since we use them the least, but when I need one I have to literally climb inside the cabinet to get one. 


    We got ours at Walmart as a set. It came with 2 big shelves, a little shelf, and a large and small under shelf basket. We used the small shelf in the fridge when I was cooling a couple cheesecakes at once. The under shelf baskets we have can't hold super heavy things, but are great for Tupperware and the like or other semi light things.

    They have a ton of them in all shapes and sizes and finishes on Amazon for pretty cheap. The search terms I used were "under shelf storage" and "cabinet organizer".
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    @littlemushroom I did the opposite with my kitchen - instead of using a dish rack to cool cheesecakes, I use a cookie cooling rack in my cabinet to store dry goods! It's one of these:
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    Spare bottles of ketchup/BBQ sauce fit underneath; mac and cheese/rice-a-roni go on top.

    We also got these to store spice jars inside the cabinet door and they CHANGED MY LIFE:

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  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    I'm a huge fan of The Container Store.  Their Elfa shelving system is a life saver.   Since it's attached to the wall near the ceiling if provides a lot of space up high.   You can configure them however you want.  

    My dad is the king of organization.  He thinks the more shelves the better.  Anywhere you can find a spot, put one in.  Even a 5 inch wide spot got shelves.   Floor to ceiling.  If there is space, put a shelf.  Ha.

    Double hanging racks make a difference.   Containers of things under hanging things like dresses helps.  

    Under-the-bed storage.   Not sure the type of bed you have, but in St Thomas I put the bed on risers to get more storage under the bed.

    Sometimes people make the shelves too far apart.  Sure times time you have tall items, but for the most part more shelves closer together provides you better storage.   Once you start stacking things on top of each other you are less likely to use them because it's a PITA to get to.


    Purge, Purge, Purge.    That helps a lot.   Unless it's a special piece of clothing like a gown, I pretty much feel like if I haven't worn them in a year, get rid of them.  I actually purge about once a quarter. Each season  I will make a maybe pile.  Then after a few weeks  if I still didn't wear the item it gets given away.      And really look at the items.  Do you really need 5 pairs of black jeans?  Do you really need 15 white t-shirts?

    You can always get a storage unit.

    ETA - I just saw the no hole reply.  Elfa has a freestanding system too.  We have them in our closet.  Works great.






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  • STARMOON44STARMOON44 member
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    Two people, three bedrooms, still not enough space. You clearly clearly have too much stuff !

    I won't call it crap. Maybe you have a whole drawer full of awesome t-shirts. Maybe you have great hobby supplies. Maybe you wear a suit to work every day.

    Doesn't matter. If you don't have room to live your life in your home, I don't care if it's crap or gold bullion you can't have it.

    One thing that has helped me downsize is a written inventory. I'm not at all detail oriented enough to keep it up to date, but when I feel overwhelmed I go through all my clothing and accessories and write it down. 4 black patent leather pumps. 12 pairs of ill fitting jeans. 3 seersucker dresses. I may like them all, but I also like being able to close the closets

    ETA: most organizing experts will tell you not to start with storage solutions. At some point you need to deal with the acquisition of stuff and acquiring more stuff at the start of the process doesn't help. Wait until you've really got a handle on what you need to keep and then buy storage.
  • We've got about 700 square feet here, but our apartment is somewhat badly laid out. The eat-in kitchen has mediocre storage and a terrible layout. It would be easier if it were a bit smaller with more storage instead of an eating area. The second bedroom is tiny and the location of the closet is terrible; the larger bedroom is only slightly better (but warped floors limit the configurations with our current furniture). We only have two closets, and they're both on the small side.

    Once we've checked our finances this week, though, I get to make a huge IKEA purchase, and we're reconfiguring a bunch of rooms to better suit our needs. In the office (the tiny room), we're getting rid of my desk and replacing it with my husband's current dresser, which will be used for storage of all sorts of things.

    In the bedroom, we're replacing my husband's current wide dresser for a tall one, replacing my nightstand and bureau with a wide dresser, and getting a higher bed so we can store things underneath. We're opting for a bed that we can place on an uneven surface, so we can put it in a better location in the bedroom. We'll also have better storage space in the bedroom so we can store sheets in my dresser instead of in a basket on the floor.

    In the living room, we're getting rid of our shit couch and the horrible IKEA chair and footstool that we never, ever, ever use. We're also getting rid of the bulky TV stand. We're replacing the couch and chair with a corner sofa to get more seating (and so I can stretch out my legs without taking up the whole couch), and we're getting a TV stand that doesn't stick out into the center of the room as much. We're also replacing a short bookshelf with a tall one; we're already out of space for books.

    In the kitchen, I'm going on a purging spree, getting rid of all the stuff we don't use and rearranging what we have. We're also getting rid of the butcher block that we brought with us to use as a work surface, but that's turned into a food storage area, and replacing it with shelving.

    Phew. I cannot fucking wait.
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  • Two people, three bedrooms, still not enough space. You clearly clearly have too much stuff ! I won't call it crap. Maybe you have a whole drawer full of awesome t-shirts. Maybe you have great hobby supplies. Maybe you wear a suit to work every day. Doesn't matter. If you don't have room to live your life in your home, I don't care if it's crap or gold bullion you can't have it. One thing that has helped me downsize is a written inventory. I'm not at all detail oriented enough to keep it up to date, but when I feel overwhelmed I go through all my clothing and accessories and write it down. 4 black patent leather pumps. 12 pairs of ill fitting jeans. 3 seersucker dresses. I may like them all, but I also like being able to close the closets ETA: most organizing experts will tell you not to start with storage solutions. At some point you need to deal with the acquisition of stuff and acquiring more stuff at the start of the process doesn't help. Wait until you've really got a handle on what you need to keep and then buy storage.
    This is good advice.

    I cleaned DH's drawers not long ago.  He has 45 pairs of underwear.  45.    We could not do laundry for a month and a half and he would still have clean underwear.    Crazy.     He didn't believe me.  So a few months later he decided to purge.   Counted the same 45 pairs I did.  He is down to 30.   Still a lot, but it's an improvement.     

    He also had 9 pairs of khaki colored shorts.  4 pairs are Ralph Lauren. The ones on the bottom never saw the day of light.   Finally he got rid of a few.   Don't get me started on the number of short black socks he owns.

    When you actually start counting what you have it's can be an eye-opener.







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  • I went from a decent sized two bedroom apartment I shared with my friend, to a teeny tiny 1 bedroom apartment that was all my own. At the same time my parents moved to a smaller 2 bedroom townhouse and informed me they were no longer storing my shit. Needless to say, I purged like a mofo.

    Clothes I hated but kept for reasons, so many books (these were hard to let go of! I love my books!), movies that I hated and would never watch again, and so much paper I didn't need. WTF was I going to do with science notes from the 7th grade? Why did I still have these? 

    Once I got rid of the easy stuff (no I'm not ever going to wear these pants that make my ass look weird, and why do I even own a halter top that barley fits over one boob), I started getting rid of the harder stuff. I got a photo box from Michaels and designated that my "memory" box. Little notes and shit I wanted to keep went in there. It made me decide what was really important and what didn't really matter. Some stuff I boxed up and decide that if I didn't look at it or touch in the next 6 months it was going to go. Some stuff was harder to let go of, so I started looking at charities I really liked to let stuff go to. It was hard to give up my old stuffed animals I hadn't touched in years, right up until I decided to donate them to a woman's shelter for the kids there. They'd actually play with them and enjoy them. 
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