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Is this flameworthy?

SIL sent the kids some belated birthday stuff.  (DD's birthday was in June and DS's was October, so yeah, belated, but I'm honestly not judging because we weren't expecting anything to begin with.)  She sent DD a couple of those outfits with the overly ruffly pants and mixed prints chevrons and stuff.  NMS, but DD ate them up, so that's cool.  And she sent DS a Leap Frog "phone" and "tablet."  Which he has absolutely zero interest in.  We showed him the phone, but he would rather try to climb into the dishwasher, or chase the cat, or play with a real phone, or engage in one of his other favorite pastimes.  We haven't even taken the tablet-thing out of the box, we turned it on in demo mode and DS simply gives zero fucks about it.  And DD and I spent literally two hours over the holiday weekend cleaning up the playroom, so I am acutely aware of how many unused, unwanted toys we already have cluttering up our space. 

Is it terrible of me to toss the tablet in the Toys for Tots bin at work and call it a day?  I mean, somewhere there must be a kid who would love that thing, right?  It's not a total piece of crap, it's a decent product.  Brand new, never opened.  I feel sort of Grinchy giving DS's stuff away, but words cannot express how uninterested he is, and this is a kid who is interested in everything:  the garbage truck, the neighbors' dogs, the moon in the sky, the wind in the trees.  And I sort of feel like it's unkind to SIL, but we already thanked her, and she lives far away and we rarely see her, so it's not like she'll be over for Christmas dinner wondering where it went.  And the thought of one more bit of kid clutter gives me hives.

Re: Is this flameworthy?

  • Donate it and don't look back. Someone will think they hit the jackpot Christmas morning.
  • I agree with 6. 

    A question....are there additional "programs" or such that one could buy for the Leapfrog stuff?  I'm thinking that she might be sending those in the future as gifts. (I'm blissfully unaware of the Leapfrog stuff since we have no children in our house and my nephew is now 12.)
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  • Donate. I can't even remember what I've given to my nieces and nephews as gifts, and I'd never be sad if they ended up donated.
  • donate without looking back.
    Anything that gets rid of STUFF.
  • Without knowing what age your DS is it's tough to make a judgment. 

  • MesmrEweMesmrEwe member
    Knottie Warrior 2500 Comments 500 Love Its 5 Answers
    edited December 2014
    (Honestly if I was the aunt - I'd be pissed if I found out that my sibling donated them without first offering/asking if there was a gift receipt to get something they're more interested in/in need of even if I do like TFT!!!)... 
  • All right, it's official.  The faux-tablet (I was wrong, it's V-tech, not Leap Frog) is in the Toys for Tots bin at work.  And not that I would change my mind, but even if I did, there's no turning back.  I'm pretty sure if I did change my mind, I couldn't take it out again without it ending up like that time in Seinfeld when George took his tip out of the jar because the guy didn't see him put his money in the tip jar, and he was going to do it again when the guy was looking, but instead the guy thought he was stealing from the tip jar, and hilarity ensued.  I don't want a reputation as the woman who steals from Toys for Tots. :)
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