My bridesmaids are all having their hair done for my wedding. Since I am not paying for them, I left it up to them whether they wanted to have it professionally done or for them to do it themselves. I was actually surprised when all wanted their hair done professionally.
I am wearing my hair in an updo with a big braid on the side. I leaving it up to the girls how they would like their hair done. Since I'm not paying, I feel I should not dictate whether they where it up or down and how. That being said, one of my bridesmaids has been choosing styles that look exactly like how I am wearing my hair. Is it okay to ask her to choose something a little different from mine? I don't want to tell her what she can/can't do, but I also don't want her walking down the aisle with the same style as me.
The same stylist will be doing all our hair. Could I just say something to the stylist about not having the girls hair too similar to mine? Or is that crossing a line?