I just had one. DH and I are talking about the possibility of moving back to California. His mother had offered for us to stay at her place while we get settled. I tell him we can't do that because she's afraid of dogs and we have a 70lb lab mix. He responds, "The dog should not dictate life major life decisions."
I did a total double take. I told him how yes she does dictate major life decisions because she is a part of our family. She may not be a child, but when we got her we committed to her for the entirely of her life, not just until it was no longer convenient for us. And that if it was between staying rent free at his mom's without the dog or living elsewhere, we'd live elsewhere. No room for debate.
He never owned pets as a kid and he isn't as attached to our dog as I am. She's 100% my dog. So I guess I see how he doesn't have the same level of connection as I have. But oh my god dude- you didn't seriously just suggest we ditch our dog for what would be a temporary living situation?
I mean just look at her! How could you even think about not letting her be a factor in a major life decision?
Edit for clarification: upon talking to him further, he didn't mean that we shouldn't let the dog decide if we temporarily move in with his mom. He meant that with major decisions like picking up and moving to a new state, we shouldn't let the dog dictate whether or not we do that. Which I agree with. We will move with the dog and live some where she can live. We're not going to stay in AZ just because she isn't welcomed at the inlaw's house.