Since I started posting the only polite thing to do is
introduce myself.
39, never been married.
Been with current boyfriend for almost 4 years. Since we are two commitment
phobes in a relationship we are currently quite happy living separately (though
planning to move in together next summer) and discussing marriage in vague
terms. By vague terms I mean. We plan to get married a few years down the road.
Crazy catlady.
Currently without a cat because I am still getting over saying goodbye
to my dearest friend and my best beloved last summer.
Been reluctant to post because I am not engaged nor planning
a wedding, just discussing a future idea of one with boyfriend. But Good god, I have been in so many damn
weddings over the years I feel confident I can weigh in with advice. Although I am so sick and tired of weddings
my attitude has become: Why do I want to plan a hugely expensive stress filled
nightmare? I can fight with my Mom for
free, I don’t need to light $20,000 on fire to do it. (Please note: I hold this opinion for myself
and myself only. I would never judge
someone else’s wedding simply because it wasn’t what I wanted. Although I will judge poor hosting and PPD’s. I feel this way because I am personally
wedding-ed out and I have never, not once, enjoyed being in a wedding)
I am blunt, sarcastic, snarky, and often more than a bit
strange. I love musical theatre and science fiction. Whiskey is my drink of choice and Joan Holloway is my hero.