Not really a double wedding, but my mom wants to get married this year also - so cute! It's her third so she's really laid back about it and happy to do it whenever to not take away from my wedding.
My grandparents are elderly and several states away, so traveling to Oregon twice in a year probably isn't an option for them. My mom asked how I would feel about her getting married either the weekend before or weekend after me so her family would only have to make one trip. My first thought is that would worth it to me to make sure my grandparents are at both our weddings, but I don't really know if it would turn into a lot of stress for everyone. Would it be OK to be out of town (a few hours from Portland) the weekend before my wedding or is there to much work to do in town?
My FI really wanted to leave on a honeymoon soon after the wedding though so the weekend after wouldn't make him happy. I would imagine it would be easier to have my mom's wedding the weekend after though since her's will be smaller and casual.
Any advice from the already marrieds?