Here's the problem..I do not really want kids at our wedding. I was going to allow 12 and up which would only mean 2..which would be his youngest brother and my nephew. My fiance says we should invite them. I mean, maybe this is because they are all from his side since my family isn't very large. If we included all of them, that means I'm adding at least 10 extra little ones ranging in age. I told him I don't want to worry about them making a mess, regardless of his saying they can behave. We are going to be at a vintage house where they provide all the china and decorations. I don't want anything broke or even quarreling, which with them can happen at any moment. He doesn't agree there. I'm stuck. I have no idea what to do and I'm afraid that if we were to consult our parents for advice, his parents would be on his side and my parents on mine which doesn't help. The wedding is fast approaching in April 2015 and we have yet to figure this out. The ceremony and reception are in the same location. I do not want more than 50 people. Without the children I am at 36.Any suggestions?