First off let me start by saying I love my future MIL and she and I have an amazing relationship and always have. Well after five years of this easy relationship I think that it is finally coming to an end.
I announced our engagement which she already knew about and she was thrilled. However her mood quickly changed when the planning begun.
My fiance and I recently moved to Missouri from California and his family still lives there, including his mother. Because WE live here and WE are paying for everything in our wedding we thought it only seemed natural to have our wedding here. Well once she heard of this she flipped out. She ended up calling my fiance and trying to guilt trip him into changing it by bringing up his handicapped brother and how he may not feel well to fly. (This was our FIRST worry and we talked to him before we went further with any planning and he said he would be there no matter what and to not worry about him) I love my FMIL and don't want her to hate me after all of this. I was just wondering if ya'll could give me some advice on how to handle this situaiton? Thank you!