Hello, I am just looking for suggestions. This is a second marriage for both of us, and we are both 55 years young. I don't want to wear a gown, and we aren't having a wedding party. Small wedding, but I still want to look elegant without looking like I'm trying to resemble a prom girl who didn't age well....any thoughts? I know it's a personality thing, but I am so stumped at the moment. Thank you ladies!!