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I'm just not that into you.

Had to share this cuz I think it's really funny. 

A year ago FI and I had a meeting with a DJ company. We drove an hour and a half to get there. They didn't show up. One of the DJs called me, really apologetic. (Apparently the person who scheduled the appointment with me was out of the country and FORGOT to tell anyone to come meet me). Ok, no big deal. I get that mistakes happen. So we went down the street to a bar, had a few drinks and a snack, and waited a couple hours on the DJ who called me to get to their office so we could then meet. 

We meet with her, and she tells us their "base package" starts at $1,400. She says this includes monogrammed lighting, up-lighting, colored lighting, concert lighting, and a light jockey-- yes a person called a light jockey--, plus 8 hours of service. I kept trying to explain to her that literally ALL we wanted was JUST music. Keep it simple. She didn't get it. Ugh.

FI and I leave the meeting and decide the price is too high and we absolutely do not want any of those extras. I e-mail the lady and tell her that we do not want any of the lighting or the light jockey person or any of it, and we need less hours of service because we're also having a live band. So can we get a lower price, considering this? (And, ahem, considering you guys blew off our meeting?) She offered to take off something like $100 which still made them significantly more money than any other DJ in the area.  

Then she calls to follow-up and I let her know we would not be using their service. Just too pricey. Right after that, the other DJ (who had blown off our meeting) called me to follow-up. He left a voicemail and said "Just wanted to see if you were interested in booking us for your wedding on---" and he said the WRONG DATE. lol. 

In tandem I keep getting calls from these two DJs for months (just every so often) asking me about whether or not I wanted to book them. I tell the lady AGAIN that no, we are not interested, we've decided to hire someone else. I got a call from the guy after that, and ignored it. 

Now it has been a year since the original meeting with them. I just now got a voicemail from the lady! She said I need to let her know "right away" whether or not I'm still interested in hiring them, because they still have the date reserved for me and if I don't want to hire them I need to tell them so they can "open that date up for other brides." Ugh. Now I have to talk to her a third time about this? 

As I was listening to the voicemail I was just laughing to myself. Get it together, people! I wanted to call back and say "I'm just not that into you. Move on!" but I will not. I will just laugh to myself and snark to you guys and probably also laugh with my FI about it because he was also baffled as to why they keep calling us.He was sitting right next to me one of the times I told her, very clearly, that we weren't hiring them. Oh well! 

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Re: I'm just not that into you.

  • esstee33 said:
    You should call back and explain in another language that you don't want to hire them. Then when they say "I don't speak that language," you can be like "well you apparently don't speak English either because I've told you repeatedly I don't want to hire you."
    Haha! Yeah they seem so incredibly disorganized to me. Yikes! I think I dodged a bullet by going with someone else. Best part is, the company is owned by a guy I know (who's close friends with one of my close friends). I'm almost tempted to tell him that his DJs are running a shit show over there
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  • Ugh! I had that happen with this photography studio we were considering. 

    The very first time, they quoted me a price that was way over our budget and comes with nothing so I thanked them for their time and told them that we will not be using their services. Then they kept calling me, several times a day every day, sometimes even in the middle of the night! They quoted a slightly lower price but it was still out of our budget the second time. The third time we already found someone in our budget and with a better package so I told them we found someone else. They kept calling nonetheless for months, saying that they have our wedding booked for us and if i'm sure, if i'm really sure I didn't want to hire them, that they can work with the other photographer, etc. Why would I want to hire another photography studio when I've already signed a contract and paid the deposit for another studio?!

    This went on for around 2 months before I had enough, these guys went well beyond my patience and I'm a pretty patient person. I screamed at the person who was calling me for the 5th time that day (yes, it was the same person over and over that day) and demanded to speak to whomever is in charge. I gave them a bad review wherever I could for all the trouble, including calling me at 3 am when I'm sleeping and blowing up my voicemail, and they finally stopped calling me.

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  • vulpiepop said:
    Ugh! I had that happen with this photography studio we were considering. 

    The very first time, they quoted me a price that was way over our budget and comes with nothing so I thanked them for their time and told them that we will not be using their services. Then they kept calling me, several times a day every day, sometimes even in the middle of the night! They quoted a slightly lower price but it was still out of our budget the second time. The third time we already found someone in our budget and with a better package so I told them we found someone else. They kept calling nonetheless for months, saying that they have our wedding booked for us and if i'm sure, if i'm really sure I didn't want to hire them, that they can work with the other photographer, etc. Why would I want to hire another photography studio when I've already signed a contract and paid the deposit for another studio?!

    This went on for around 2 months before I had enough, these guys went well beyond my patience and I'm a pretty patient person. I screamed at the person who was calling me for the 5th time that day (yes, it was the same person over and over that day) and demanded to speak to whomever is in charge. I gave them a bad review wherever I could for all the trouble, including calling me at 3 am when I'm sleeping and blowing up my voicemail, and they finally stopped calling me.
    Holy shit that's like stalker behavior! Ugh! 
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  • I got an email the other day from a florist I enailed way back before we found ours. She was wondering how my planning was going and offered to give a quite for reception decorations.

    I got married three months ago.
  • What is the "right way" to say no? Any of these cover it?
  • Similar thing happened to my sister 3 years ago when she was getting married. My mom had contacted a DJ company they had seen at an expo and said she was the mother of the bride and was getting price quotes for her daughter. The proceeded to call my mom and say congratulations on your wedding, thinking it was her wedding. Ok fine, mistakes happen whatever.

    She said they were using someone else, and they proceeded to call all the damn time. I got married in a different state, so never even thought to contact them. However, my sister is getting married in the same area as our other sister, and she's already been contacted by this company (how did they get her name and number?) 
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  • Similar thing happened to my sister 3 years ago when she was getting married. My mom had contacted a DJ company they had seen at an expo and said she was the mother of the bride and was getting price quotes for her daughter. The proceeded to call my mom and say congratulations on your wedding, thinking it was her wedding. Ok fine, mistakes happen whatever.

    She said they were using someone else, and they proceeded to call all the damn time. I got married in a different state, so never even thought to contact them. However, my sister is getting married in the same area as our other sister, and she's already been contacted by this company (how did they get her name and number?) 


    SIB
    I got contacted by so many wedding-related businesses right after I got engaged, but I had never signed up for anything or given out my address or anything. And I'm renting my house so it's not like my address is in the phone book or something? It really creeped me out! 
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  • Good grief!!! 

    Yeah I had a limo company routinely call me. Super annoying, because I was never in the market for a limo...

    Some bridal salons give away your information, by the way.  
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  • Good grief!!! 

    Yeah I had a limo company routinely call me. Super annoying, because I was never in the market for a limo...

    Some bridal salons give away your information, by the way.  
    Eeeeeeeeeew! 
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  • Similar thing happened to my sister 3 years ago when she was getting married. My mom had contacted a DJ company they had seen at an expo and said she was the mother of the bride and was getting price quotes for her daughter. The proceeded to call my mom and say congratulations on your wedding, thinking it was her wedding. Ok fine, mistakes happen whatever.

    She said they were using someone else, and they proceeded to call all the damn time. I got married in a different state, so never even thought to contact them. However, my sister is getting married in the same area as our other sister, and she's already been contacted by this company (how did they get her name and number?) 


    SIB
    I got contacted by so many wedding-related businesses right after I got engaged, but I had never signed up for anything or given out my address or anything. And I'm renting my house so it's not like my address is in the phone book or something? It really creeped me out! 
    I've been getting tons of bridal spam in the post. I bet signing up for TK had something to do with it...
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  • lurkergirllurkergirl member
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    edited January 2015





    Similar thing happened to my sister 3 years ago when she was getting married. My mom had contacted a DJ company they had seen at an expo and said she was the mother of the bride and was getting price quotes for her daughter. The proceeded to call my mom and say congratulations on your wedding, thinking it was her wedding. Ok fine, mistakes happen whatever.

    She said they were using someone else, and they proceeded to call all the damn time. I got married in a different state, so never even thought to contact them. However, my sister is getting married in the same area as our other sister, and she's already been contacted by this company (how did they get her name and number?) 


    SIB
    I got contacted by so many wedding-related businesses right after I got engaged, but I had never signed up for anything or given out my address or anything. And I'm renting my house so it's not like my address is in the phone book or something? It really creeped me out! 


    I've been getting tons of bridal spam in the post. I bet signing up for TK had something to do with it...

    Edited because no boxes

    I know tk is part of it because it's the only place I signed up using a weird, specific version of my name, and that's the name on a lot of the mail I get.




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  • steph861steph861 member
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    edited January 2015
    This (sort of) happened to us with a deejay company too, but not nearly to the same degree as you! After exploring all of our options, we told them we were going with another company, and apparently the person we talked to didn't tell anybody else, because we got an email about a month later asking if we were still interested. So I responded saying we already spoke to somebody at his company and that we were hiring somebody else. No response. 
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  • Good grief!!! 

    Yeah I had a limo company routinely call me. Super annoying, because I was never in the market for a limo...

    Some bridal salons give away your information, by the way.  
    Eeeeeeeeeew! 
    Yup. When I got to David's Bridal they handed me a clipboard to fill out and I wrote my first name at the top and handed it back. She was like uum you didn't fill it out? I said I'm all set, I don't need more spam mail. She said oh we don't do that! I said Really?! Because since making this appointment a week ago I've gotten 5 spam emails from your store and 3 from photographers that I never contacted. 
    She said oh and put the clipboard down. 

                                                                     

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