I had a few questions about what other people have done, we are having a private ceremony with just our parents out of state but decided we wanted to have a party to celebrate when we get back home. For the invitations I want to send them out before the wedding happens since the reception type party will be occuring two weeks after we get back. Everything I am finding online is worded after the couple is already married. Do you guys have any suggestions? Also should I send out save the dates since we would like everyone to come if they can? Thank you!