I am so glad I checked this site out. I'm not engaged yet but we are trying figure out what is feasible. I want a grandiose wedding but loathe the idea of wasted money if someone decides not to show. So my issue is this, I want the big cake, pretty flowers, bridesmaids, phat reception (Lol!!!) etc, but with the low cost. Does anyone have any experience in planning a cruise wedding where you made substitutions for what is offered? How difficult was it?