Hey y'all. I'm getting married in Nov 2015 at at Sandal's resort in Jamaica. YES IM SUPER EXICTED We are inviting a lot of people to the wedding in Jamaica as well as a reception party back home at a later date. I have decided on who I would like to be my MOH and my BMs. My dilemia is if its ok to ask all of them before they commit to Jamaica. I already have my MOH and 2 other BMs who booked their trips, so I am comfortable asking them. I'm not sure however about asking the girls who have not. I don't want to pressure anyone into feeling like they have to go when they might not be able to due to money, time, etc. I also don't want the girls to feel left out that I didn't ask or they not realize I wanted to ask. I want them to realize that it's important to me that they be there but at the same time not pressuring them into it. Please help!