This is going to be super long. I'll try to summarize with a TL;DR at the end!
Many of you know that I'm a therapist that gets referrals through court, so most of the kids I see are court-ordered to get treatment (I have like 4 kids that I see just because we got along well and they wanted to keep me as opposed to transferring to regular outpatient). I see kids who are considered 'status offenders,' they're guilty of offenses like being truant from school, running away from home, or what's called 'ungovernable behavior' which means behaviors like being defiant/destructive but not committing any acts that are necessarily deemed a crime, per say. The issue with my job is that about half of the kids I see are really out of control. Their parents can't manage their behaviors at all, many of the kids are even physically aggressive with their parents, etc. Usually, truancy is the LEAST of these kids' problems. It's a really sad situation, and I have my own theories about parenting and how some of the behavioral stuff could be prevented or dealt with, but that's another story. Also, since this is court ordered treatment, I have a HUGE no-show rate(ironic). If I schedule 20 sessions in a week, I may see 7-10 kids, so these families aren't getting the treatment that they really need.
In Alabama, you can't place a juvenile (someone under 18) in a locked facility for more than 72 hours every 6 months, unless they've been charged with and found guilty of a dangerous crime or a felony. Even then, most of them get probation the first time and none of them are put in a facility like detention or sent to a boot camp until they've racked up multiple offenses. Also, if the child is not a current delinquent in the system, if police are called to the home/find the kid doing something like shoplifting, they do a report and then nothing happens. No charges filed, nothing. Sometimes a place of business will pursue charges in a case like shoplifting, but many of them in my experience don't bother with it because the kids usually aren't stealing huge values of stuff.
Since these families first meet me at court, I get lumped in with court officials and I'm the one the parents call when the kids have done something crazy. And I'm the one who has to break the news to the parents that there is nothing the law can do to help the parents out, and if the parents put their hands on their children, CPS will take the kids away.
With all this in mind, I have several cases that are pretty troubling. Most involve kids who regularly are defiant to their parents, often are threatening and/or violent, and some have even tested positive for substances.
My question is should we do more, as a society, to prosecute kids? I know that you never know(even as a therapist) what all goes on in someone's home and that I'm only getting one side of the story, but sometimes I feel like if the law could actually DO something with the kids I see, we could prevent further crimes. I also know that many of these kids would be in much different situations if there had been intervention earlier in their lives, but at this point, what do we do? What do you guys think?
TL;DR: Should kids be locked up for committing crimes? Or is there another alternative?
ETA: Although no personal information was shared, I did edit some of the original post to be more vague.