Not sure if this is even the right board for this lol
FDH and I were talking about who we wanted to invite friend wise, who not and why. He wants to invite his ex and her BF. They do have a kid together but in my mind this is totally inappropriate and it never even crossed my mind to invite my ex that I have kids with. He said "I want to show her that it's completely over and she's never getting me back". So me, being spineless, choose my battles and chose to sit on this one until I got feedback. I immediately told him, I'm not inviting my ex and it would make me uncomfortable, on my wedding day, to have her there. He said he wouldn't want me to feel that way so he wouldn't invite her.
I could tell he was not happy with my response. He might not be happy, but I'm down right pissed and he doesn't even know it yet.
What I want to say now and I should have said then was "why the f#ck do you feel the need to show that fat alcoholic who doesn't mother her own child, your child, that you're over her? Because I don't give my ex a f#cking thought...ever."
I've got a bad taste in my mouth right now. Am I over reacting?
How many of you invited your ex or your SO invited their ex?