You all may have talked about this before I joined the boards, but I just came across this gem:
http://jezebel.com/rude-bride-tells-facebook-pals-why-they-arent-invited-t-1618234621/+Jessica
This was her FB post:
We are sending out invites for the wedding this week. Going through the list of people to invite. We only have so much room at the church and reception. I'm going to try and make this as simple as possible so no one gets butt hurt. If you do not get an invite here is a list of potential reasons why.
1. If I have invited you everytime [sic] we have a group function and you never show up
2. If you are just a work acquaintance and I have never hung out with you outside of work
3. If I show up to thinks you invite me to and you never show up to our invites or even respond
4. If I have only hung out with you in a group setting and we're not that close of friends
5. If at any point you have ever talked shit about me or [redacted] your [sic] definitely not invited
6. If your [sic] only going to show up for food and alcohol and really have no interest other than that
7. If you got married and I thought we were friends and you didn't invite me
If you don't get an invite and you are planning on coming let me or [redacted]