Hi everyone! I am getting married in May 2015. This will be our 2nd wedding for both of us; we have a child each- my son is 7 and his is 8. We are going to have a small wedding in my parents backyard and really want to keep the guest list to around 40 (plus that is all that can really fit back there)- I keep having people say "oh can I come?" and have to tell them it's a small family event. Or wanting me to get a HUGE wedding dress - UGH. NO WAY. Not for this small wedding- His daughter is obessed with weddings and wants to go to David's Bridal and try on dresses and do the whole bridal thing..I don't really want to deprive her of this specal stuff, but I don't want to be put in the position of falling in love with a dress I don't want/need. Anyone else have all these things they are going through? I know everyone is crazy excited about it! And we are too- we are just more focused on being together and not the event of the wedding!! Thanks!!