So my fiancé has a very large family, having 5 sisters. With him having so many sisters we agreed for me not to have any if them part of the bridal party since we agreed just on 5 for each of us.
So to be nice, they are all helping out someway in the wedding, I wanted to give them each a special gift from me to say thanks and how happy I am to gain 5 sisters.
I'm waiting to give them each poems saying so but Im having such a hard time finding any good future sister in law poems or gift ideas!
Any help or suggestions??
Re: Future sister in law poems
Obviously we don't know everything. That would be super weird if we knew your whole situation. People replied on the information you provided..
Who was rude to you? Point me in the direction. Were my question and picture offensive and rude in your eyes? If so, the internet might not be the place for you. If anything, you're the one coming off as rude by lashing out and call us "horrible" just for speaking our thoughts on the situation.
The thing about the internet is people can post their own opinions. Just because you don't like opinions, doesn't make the rest of us a pack of terrible jackasses. It means you didn't like our opinions. Just like we said we didn't like the idea of these little tasks or poems.
I'm going to continue to post how I damn well please. Thanks.
You are having ONE person take care of all the decorating? Won't she be a tired, hot, sweaty mess when she is done? If she can't do it all herself, does SHE have to go begging for help?
As the photographer, they rarely have a moment of rest. You find it flattering and an honor to have a sister in law photograph your wedding rather than enjoy herself as a guest? What if you don't like her pictures?
You have a SIL practicing making invitations? Again, what if you don't like them? What if she falls behind your time frame?
I don't need to know any additional details to know that these are indeed JOBS. Being asked to do jobs is not an honor. Being a guest and enjoying the wedding is the honor.
Write a heartfelt thank you note. You will then not be bound by the confines of poetry. As far as a gift, shop for each personally. If one likes wine, a bottle of wine. If one loves Starbucks, a Starbucks gift card. A scarf for the scarf lover, etc.