What is the proper etiquette for asking bridesmaids? What I mean is I have two step sisters that I'm close with but not necessarily close enough to ask them to be in my wedding party? (we were all adults when our parents married, so its not like we grew up together or anything). One of them lives out of state and I doubt neither of them could afford the added expense that comes with being a bridesmaid. Is it wrong of me to not ask them? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.