So I still have 10 months left b4 my wedding!!
and i think im getting "cold feet" my FI lost his job 2 weeks ago and it seems like he is enjoying time at home playing video games. he has been with out a job for 2 weeks and hasnt even put in a job application. this really bothers me because I dont have my familys approval for the wedding cause they dont like him. I have a full time job and im going to help pay for some of the wedding but his mom is the one thats going to actually pay for it. i dont know what to do, Im scared he is going to do this when we get married. just quit a job and thats it. He gets depressed very easy so if i tell him something like you need to start acting like an adult and get a job we have a big expence comming up. he will take it as im calling him worthless and get all depressed and stuff. I want a big wedding and wont be able to have it cause he cant save money and im not making his mom pay for everything. I dont know what to do, any advise?