I need some advice please! My dad and I aren't exceptionally close. He hasn't been there a whole lot and while he ocassionally tries having a relationship with me, it isn't by any means consistent. He got divorced from my step-mom about 2 to 3 years ago after 9 years of marriage. I am close to her. She's always treated me as one of her own and I have a lot of love for her and my step-sister, who is a bridesmaid. My father also has a new girlfriend that I am not particularly fond of. At all. He doesn't want me to invite my step-mother to the wedding, for fear it will upset his new girlfriend. I say screw her, I love my step mom and would rather have her there than the new girlfriend. Now, I'm not saying the new girlfriend isn't invited. She is ofcourse, as my father's significant other. However, I don't feel that I should have to exclude the woman who has loved me and treated me like family for the past 12 years just to make this new woman comfortable. Am I being unreasonable? Should I not invite my step-mom because my father doesn't want me to?