Is it too much to have a big reception? Do I knock of the mother son dance because he already has done it? Do we invite everyone to the wedding? He has been divorced for 5 years and they were married for 10. What are your thoughts? This would be my first marriage but I also want to be considerate to the fact that he has been through it all. He said hes open to whatever and as long as I am happy... but I need opinions! Thanks!