Honeymoon Fund

levioosa

shellc104 said:

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Don't bother to ask any opinion on anything on this site, all of these people are just rude and sarcastic, I got the same attitude when I posted a question earlier and all I wanted was some input just like you...

You were given polite advice.  You chose to ignore it and go on the defensive when you weren't told what you wanted to hear. 

southernbelle0915

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Your decorator gave you bad advice. Lots of people will give you advice that's against etiquette throughout your planning. Do you usually believe everything you hear?

I was told I should have a cash bar and not provide chairs for my ceremony because I could save money. Nope nope nope.

justsie

shellc104 said:

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Don't bother to ask any opinion on anything on this site, all of these people are just rude and sarcastic, I got the same attitude when I posted a question earlier and all I wanted was some input just like you...

Um, wasn't your question about how it would be seen etiquette -wise to not invite your older relatives to the reception (which is the "thank you" for attending the ceremony) because you didn't think they would dance until late? If you go to the etiquette board and ask an etiquette question you are going to get an etiquette answer. If you don't like it then just be aware that how the ladies responded is probably how most of the guests (who know of the etiquette involved with a wedding-like these ladies do) are going to respond.  Whatever risk you take with that is on you.

justsie

Knottienumbers- just because someone has done something in the past/before does not mean it is proper etiquette for a wedding. I'm sorry to say that if I spend money to go to your wedding, spend money on a gift and then get additionally asked to fund your vacation I'm not going to be a happy camper and will probably remember this for quite some time. 

mikenberger

shellc104 said:

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Don't bother to ask any opinion on anything on this site, all of these people are just rude and sarcastic, I got the same attitude when I posted a question earlier and all I wanted was some input just like you...

dramamonkey

So here's the thing. I've said it before, and I'll say it again...

I did a honeymoon fund. 

I regret that I did it. 

To be honest, at the end of the day, people are SO generous at weddings (I really truly was SHOCKED at how generous), and a honeymoon fund just isn't worth it. 

We didn't have a ton of people contribute to our honeymoon, but I felt SO MUCH PRESSURE to make sure we did EVERYTHING that people had paid for, that I feel I didn't get to relax and enjoy our honeymoon as much as I could have. 

hellopig

I'm mainly a lurker, don't post much, but you make me sad. Clearly you just wanted validation for your rude idea, not honest opinions. You asked if something was rude, people said yes, and you got irrationally upset. If you want someone to pet your hair and tell you how wonderful you are, go to your FI.

Edit: Why does quoting hate me? this was @shellc104

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fwtx5815

shellc104 said: Knottie23274138 said: Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks Don't bother to ask any opinion on anything on this site, all of these people are just rude and sarcastic, I got the same attitude when I posted a question earlier and all I wanted was some input just like you...
_____________________________________________________________________ I almost feel bad for you. Life will be so hard for you if you can't figure out how to handle honest responses.

Viczaesar

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

BUT WHAT IS "IT"????  The mystery is killing me.  What exactly did he suggest that you do?

AddieCake

Viczaesar said:

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

BUT WHAT IS "IT"????  The mystery is killing me.  What exactly did he suggest that you do?

I think it's a jar out at the reception decorated up Pinterest-inspired with "Honeymoon" written  in "cute" chalk or some shit. 

OP, you asked for opinions on this, and you got them. If you didn't want opinions, you shouldn't have posted. If people here don't like the idea that you asked about, they are going to tell you. Would you have been ok with the responses if they said, "Golly!  I sure as sugar don't think that is a cherry-on-top of an idea!  I do think you should reconsider!  Let's go have a lollipop!" ?   Would that have been an acceptable way, in your opinion,  to tell you what they think of this idea?  

wrigleyville

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Any time a wedding idea involves the word "profit", consider it a bad idea. Your wedding is not a fundraiser. People will give you cash gifts. You don't need to ask for more.

Your vendor suggested it because they are in charge of decorations and want to make more money. Vendors don't always care about etiquette, especially when they can make more money from their bad ideas.

PrettyGirlLost

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Jesus Christ, if we simply answer a question- we are rude. If we are snarky- we are rude. If we post GIFS- we are rude.

From now on I'm not going to say a frigging thing and just respond with glitter GIFs.

PrettyGirlLost

shellc104 said:

Knottie23274138 said:

Thank you for the response but dont appreciate the sarcasm and you being rude with your typing. I was just asking for more opinions since one of my vendors says it was fine and has had people it before. And the benefit to not doing it online IS online sites takes part of profit . Thanks

Don't bother to ask any opinion on anything on this site, all of these people are just rude and sarcastic, I got the same attitude when I posted a question earlier and all I wanted was some input just like you...


You got your answers- your idea was rude.

anne2018

I would not ask for money for a honeymoon.