Okay, so I'm at a crossroads here. My fiances brother will most definitely be a groomsman, however, I'm not really wanting to ask his girlfriend to be a bridesmaid. I have no problem with her. We get along just fine. We are just not close enough for me to consider her as a bridesmaid. SOOOOOOO comes the question, should I ask her just to be polite, or should I stick to my guns and keep the ladies that are closest to me?