Is anyone else getting married after they have already had kids? My fiancé and I have 2 beautiful boys together and for personal reasons we have postponed our wedding until now. We want it to be special, but I also feel a bit weird because we have been common law married for years and own a house already. I've had some negative responses about it and just wanted to see other brides perspectives. Is it silly to be planning a wedding? We are hoping to have a small intimate destination wedding and will be asking family not to buy gifts because there isn't anything we need since we have been living together for over 5 years.