I am having a destination wedding in Kauai, Hawaii and pretty much all of my fiancé's family is not able to come to our wedding. We are going to have a second reception in Kentucky, which is where his family lives. I am in a conflict with who to invite to our couple's shower. My mom is paying for our entire wedding (long story) and one of my sister's and her are throwing us our shower. My mom does not want our shower to be too big, but I do not know who we should and should not invite. Help please!