My fiance and I got engaged October 2014. We set the date and asked our bridal party fairly quickly to be a part of our special day. We asked two good friends (who happen to be a couple). Our friends got engaged a month later. They immediately asked us to be in their wedding which they set almost a month to the date before ours. What do we do?? We initially said yes, because we really are happy for them but as we are budgeting our own wedding we just cannot afford to be in theirs since it's a month before ours! We sat them down and told them, they agreed then two days later they told us they would pay for us to be in their wedding. My fiance and I cannot return the favor and now feel awkward and put on the spot. Am I being selfish for wanting to spend that money on my own wedding and just wanting to be in my own bridal bubble and enjoy this time as a bride instead of worrying about being in a wedding, etc? Help!