Honeymoon Registries - Anyone else?

JCbride2015

Knottie88299842 said:

@JCbride2015  You've responded 5 times already to a topic that clearly gets you riled up.  And your first response was not to the original poster... it was at @amt6 who had already said that her and her FI had set up a HR with an explanation behind it.  I'm pretty sure she wasn't asking for your opinion.  She was responding to the OP.  So your continuous comments on her character for her personal decision was somewhat "Rude rude rude."  It's so easy to sit behind a computer screen and badger a bride in a digital forum than it is to tell your friend or relative that you think they're rude.  That doesn't makes you much better of a person, especially when you keep drilling the point in such a snarky tone (your word not mine). But you want to talk about having manners...

You did not respond to the OP.  You were far more than straightforward. But to say there was no attacking is questionable.  

Anyhow, I'm not here on TK to badger/bicker with you or anyone else.  

Really?  Doesn't seem that way.

ohmrs2014

I have told friends and family that I think they are rude when they need to hear it.  LOL.  Just needed to say that.

JoanE2012

Knottie88299842 said:

@JCbride2015  You've responded 5 times already to a topic that clearly gets you riled up.  And your first response was not to the original poster... it was at @amt6 who had already said that her and her FI had set up a HR with an explanation behind it.  I'm pretty sure she wasn't asking for your opinion.  She was responding to the OP.  So your continuous comments on her character for her personal decision was somewhat "Rude rude rude."  It's so easy to sit behind a computer screen and badger a bride in a digital forum than it is to tell your friend or relative that you think they're rude.  That doesn't makes you much better of a person, especially when you keep drilling the point in such a snarky tone (your word not mine). But you want to talk about having manners...

You did not respond to the OP.  You were far more than straightforward. But to say there was no attacking is questionable.  

Anyhow, I'm not here on TK to badger/bicker with you or anyone else.  

This is a public message board.  Anyone can post in response to anyone else on here.  If that bothers anyone or they can't handle that, then they shouldn't post.  Obviously, it didn't bother AMT6 much because she kept responding to JCBride2015!  

Many of the folks here will tell it to you like it is and not sugarcoat it.  Myself included.  Chances are, your friends and family won't be as direct.  They'll try to appease you, when in reality they're rolling their eyes and offended at the honeymoon registry.  Wouldn't you rather have strangers tell you here that something is rude before you do it than maybe find out afterwards that you offended some friends or members of your family?