I've been afraid to post this because I know Alabama's got a pretty shitty reputation, and I know that we're not doing it right by any means.
But guys - gay marriage is legal here, as of today. All but four counties (per my latest info) are issuing licenses to whomever applies, regardless of the gender of the applicants. Many of them seem to be choosing not to actually perform ceremonies, but there's only four counties completely refusing to issue to anyone, and there are ministers available at some of the Courthouses to wed those who receive their licenses.
Like I said, it's not being done right, and we're having to be forced, and I *know* it's not being executed properly (or at all, in direct disobedience to a federal Order) but I gotta be hopeful.