I caught a rerun of the "I'm a Bridesmaid" episode of MTV's True Life yesterday. It reminded me of the WAY too many posts over on the bridal party board recently about bridesmaids not stepping up to their "obligations." One bride completely replaced her entire bridal party! It's one thing to read all the posts recently, but seeing it happen in front of you really allows you to see how awful it is. I just want my bridesmaids to stand up with me on my wedding day, because I love them and know how much they love and respect my relationship with my FI. Why is that so hard for some brides to get?