I am recently engaged and planning a summer 2016 wedding. I had always planned on asking my cousin, who I have always been extremely close with, to be my MOH but before I could even approach the subject my younger sister (16 years old) and mom assumed my sister would be the MOH. I am very close with my sister but I hadn't planned on her being the MOH. Now it has turned into a big issue between my mom and I; I don't want to hurt my sister or make her feel like I don't value her as a member of the bridal party. I don't expect either to do much besides the bachelorette party/ speech/ marriage witness but I feel like the title would mean a lot to both. What do I do? Do I have two MOHs? Please help!