I had a destination wedding in Lake Placid. I wanted to provide guests with a number of hotel options including price, location, amenities etc. The wedding was at a very expensive hotel and I didnt expect my guests to stay there. So I put a very low budget hotel on the wedding website expecting some of my older family members to stay there. I really discouraged my friends from staying there but 3 couples stayed there anyway. I have since heard how horrible it was and I totally feel like it reflects on me and my wedding that we "recommended" such a bad hotel. I can't seem to get over this and almost feel like I need to apologize to them. Anyone have a similar experience?