Hello ladies. I am looking for insight and advice. I am not catholic but my FH is. I am completely on board with his catholic family member performing our ceremony and also doing the premarriage counseling and extras to abide by the Catholic church. That being said, we have our venue set for a beautiful hotel in Downtown Indy. We want our ceremony to be there so no one including us needs to travel and find parking etc. His catholic minister(idk If this is the right title), tells us we have to perform our ceremony in a Catholic church before our actual wedding. I am NOT okay with this. It would be him, my Fiancé and I, and our persons of honor. What is the rule on this? It's important to FH but having my family and friends there are important to me. Can we abide by the rest and get married in a non-catholic church location?