I would like some feedback in regards to having a shower thrown for me where guests are notified that if they plan to give a gift, gift cards would be appreciated rather than actual gifts. My shower and the wedding are taking place in a different state then where i currently live. I have started a registry, but then got to thinking about registering only for gift cards. The reason being that I live in a small apartment and we may/may not be moving this year. While I understand that i can have items shipped to my home, the biggest factor is that I don't have any extra space to store gifts that I may receive. I have read many posts from others saying that to suggest guests give gift cards over presents is rude and tacky, and others saying not to have a shower at all. 1. This is the easiest thing for me to accept given the circumstances. I am in no way trying to be rude or implying what people pick out for me wouldn't be good enough. Its primarily a space issue and 2. My mom and sister are adamant on throwing me a shower. I appreciate thoughts on this.