I asked my best GF from high school and my best GF where I live now to
be co-MOHs. I haven't been involved in planning of the bridal
shower or the bachelorette party but they both have come to me complaining about it and about each other. Both MOHs want to plan very different showers
and parties. MOH #1 thinks the shower should be done one way while MOH
#2 thinks it should be another way. MOH #1 wants to plan a bowling
"good clean fun" bachelorlette party and MOH #2 wants to plan a blow out
night on the town. The other BMs are siding with the MOH #2
because they know her and we're all friends where MOH #1 lives an hour away and doesn't know the rest of the group. MOH #1 is very
upset that I have chosen MOH #2 and these other BMs, calling them a
bunch of partiers that she doesn't agree with. She also doesn't understand why MOH #2 wants a specific theme for the bridal shower when things like that at home aren't a big deal.
I have suggested
to them both about coming to a compromise, especially with the
bachelorette party, maybe bowling in the afternoon and then out on the
town later. I even told MOH #1 if she didn't want to go out then she
didn't have to. MOH #1 keeps telling me that my party friends are making her uncomfortable and she's upset to be out numbered when it comes to ideas. MOH #2 is complaining to me that MOH #1 is no fun at all and has criticized her and the other BMs for enjoying alcohol and having fun. I think this has caused a lot of trouble and I didn't want it to be that way.
I don't want to be involved in planning these showers or parties. I don't care what we do but asking these girls to compromise on plans doesn't seem to be working. Help???