I am going to have bouquet charms made with pictures of my three grandparents who have passed away. My living grandmother is elderly and very very frail and so she will not be able to make my wedding. Should I include her picture in my bouquet? It seems silly to leave her out when she will also only be at my wedding in spirit? Or do you think it would be weird to include her picture among those have passed when she is still living as if she has already passed? Also when I've been looking at the bouquet charms online, they are either pictures of the grandparent's wedding or formal portraits. I was thinking about doing pictures of them with me as a young child. Whenever I look at these pictures, I feel their love for me shining through and it makes me happy, but I don't know it's weird to carry pictures of my young self on my bouquet? What do you think?