I asked a friend to be apart of me wedding when I first got engaged since then she did something REALLY crappy to me at work I.e. stealing behind my back and I no longer want her to be apart of my wedding party and frankly not at the wedding at all. How do I tell her all of this without sounding like a total bitch not that she doesn't deserve it its just not who I am. I will not meet up with her I'm going to text her and I don't care. I would just like an appropriate way to inform her she is no longer apart of it.