We got married on a cruise which was great because I didn't have to deal with planning all the details, and it was gorgeous. However, nobody from my husband's family was able to attend ( When we returned we had to have a 'wedding' for his side of the family. So now we have two anniversaries?? I just hate that we had two weddings and the second one was planned by my mother in law and her sister and was not at all my style. I really didn't like anything about it. Evey time I think about our wedding I get so frustrated and wish I could do it all over again to fix it. If there is anyone else out there that hates their wedding, are you planning on renewing your vows at all and having the wedding you want or....how do you deal with it?