So today I just got a response back from FI's former roommate and his girlfriend; they are coming to the wedding, but also want to bring their 11 month old son. The invite had only been addressed to the 2 of them, but they wrote the son in anyway. The only kids we were planning on having was my cousin's/BM's 2 kids - they are 4 and 5 years old. No one else's kids were invited. Am I going to look like a total jerk if I tell this guy that he can't bring his kid? I told my mom about it, and she was all up in arms about it (she's paying for the reception). Ugh...