My mom asked me this question last night because she knows I've been doing a lot of research on wedding-related etiquette for my own wedding. She's going to a bridal shower on Saturday, and when she checked the registry, everything had been bought. So she wanted to know if it would be appropriate to give a gift card for the bridal shower, and cash at the wedding itself.
I told her that was probably fine, but as showers are gift giving events, it might feel weird to watch the bride open a gift card in between actual physical gifts, and if she felt odd about it, maybe she could take another look at the registry. Maybe there's an appliance listed, and my Mom could buy related accessories for it. Or maybe there's products with the China pattern on them that weren't listed in the registry, like a tea set. So I was just wondering what y'all would say. Is it a faux pas to give a gift card for a shower gift, or just not as fun as a physical present?