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Yes, another tipping question; being paid a higher hourly rate for no tips?

I'm probably over-thinking this but I couldn't find anything on the boards for this specific thing (and to be honest I didn't search very hard because I hate the way the search feature is). 

I was planning on tipping our bartenders (of course) but then when we finalized the contract, they had 2 different hourly rates. They get $x per hour if they're allowed to have a tip jar on the bar. They get a higher hourly rate if they cannot have a tip jar on the bar (to compensate them for the lack of tips, I assume). It's a somewhat significant difference in amounts. 

We are paying them the higher amount to avoid the tip jar. I still feel inclined to tip them, though. It feels icky not to. Should I tip them the same amount I otherwise would, or a lower amount since they're getting a higher hourly wage to compensate for no tip jar [is this like built-in gratuity for them?], or what? 

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Re: Yes, another tipping question; being paid a higher hourly rate for no tips?

  • We paid $30 an hour per person for a minimum of eight hours. I know they worked longer.

    We still tipped $150 for the bartenders. We had a huge drinking crowd and you know the tropical storm (event under a tent).

    I would still tip. Just not at the same rate as others.






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  • lyndausvi said:

    We paid $30 an hour per person for a minimum of eight hours. I know they worked longer.

    We still tipped $150 for the bartenders. We had a huge drinking crowd and you know the tropical storm (event under a tent).

    I would still tip. Just not at the same rate as others.

    Thanks, I was actually hoping you'd weigh in on this :) 
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  • I would think of this like the 15% gratuity that's automatically added on to a waiter's bill when you're in a party of 6 or more people.  But if you'd normally tip 20% or more because the waiter was awesome at serving a group of 12 and you're feeling especially generous because it's your birthday, you can add more to the "included gratuity".
  • adk19 said:

    I would think of this like the 15% gratuity that's automatically added on to a waiter's bill when you're in a party of 6 or more people.  But if you'd normally tip 20% or more because the waiter was awesome at serving a group of 12 and you're feeling especially generous because it's your birthday, you can add more to the "included gratuity".

    That's really helpful. Thank you!
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  • What is the difference between the two prices, and then what is that percentage compared to the lower the amount? Is it 20% more, I don't think you need to tip. If it's 10% more, then I would tip extra.
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  • What is the difference between the two prices, and then what is that percentage compared to the lower the amount? Is it 20% more, I don't think you need to tip. If it's 10% more, then I would tip extra.

    Thank you! I'll have to check the contract cuz I don't remember the exact lower amount, but that is brilliant.
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