A good friend of mine is having a planned elopement during a trip overseas this summer. When I got married last summer, she was super supportive, and came to the shower and bachelorette from out of town. I wanted to get her something to congratulate her and her partner, even though I know it's not necessary, I just thought it would be a nice gesture. My go-to gift for weddings is money, but a friend said it would be awkward to just send her a card with money in it for an elopement? (I'd probably mail it to her since we don't live in the same town). They don't have a registry so I don't feel super comfortable getting them stuff they might not want and shipping it over there… thoughts? is it weird to send cash for an elopement?