I have to thank all of the knotties on here for all of there help in helping me with all of the etiquette things, especially invitation etiquette - you know- not putting things in there that would make your guest feel uncomfortable or feel like you're only inviting them for a gift. Because I just got an invitation and I got that feeling and then some. Not only did she put where they were registered but she went further and said, "The bride and groom are also accepting monetary gifts to start their future together". Yes - I'm telling you guys my life is stranger than fiction (don't forget about my springtime bohomian fairytale thingy...) A mutual friend of ours refuses to even buy her a gift now she was so offended. I was just in awe... So thanks ladies for all of your help!