So my wedding is in October and my Mom has graciously offered to host my bridal shower. On my side of the family there are approximately 21ish women - including my bridesmaids and friends. My grandmother thinks we need to extend an invitation to my FMIL as well but my Fi thinks she'll be uncomfortable since she doesn't know anyone but me - even my Mom. My mom has considered inviting his side, but my side of the family thinks it's too many people/too much for my Mom. I don't think my Mom can host an additional 20 people from my Fi's side of the family especially if it's at her house since we don't have the space. I don't need a shower at all and I'm very grateful for the one my Mom wants to host, but I don't want to start drama and neither does my Mom.
What do you ladies recommend? Were you worried about offending your Fi's side? What did you do? Thanks in advance!