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slight rant about child teacher

My kindergartener came home crying after being given parent specific homework assignments this week. Moms were to teach their child how to make their favorite food and stand in front of the class yesterday and tell the whole class. Okay no problem pizza is easy. Dads were to teach their child how to fix something that is broken and has to stand up in front of the class tomorrow and tell them. This is where she was upset.... her father isn't around much and my fiance she has on occasionally calls dad works a 2nd shift. So she only gets to see him on weekends until his transfer comes. She was upset that she didn't have either of them to help her. I'm wondering what the hell is a teacher thinking given parent specific assignments when reality is we do not live in the 1800's. There are plenty of single parent households and something like this was a stupid move. I taught her how to fix the sink when its leaking but come on teach use your brain and don't ask this kind of stuff. The assignment was in her weekly newsletter so there was no misunderstanding on my daughters part. This is also a teacher who since a month into school has told the kids "girls play with girls, boys play with boys". I have complained about this because my daughters best friend is a boy so she is constantly being told to go play with other kids. The school has done....nothing of course.
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Re: slight rant about child teacher

  • My kindergartener came home crying after being given parent specific homework assignments this week. Moms were to teach their child how to make their favorite food and stand in front of the class yesterday and tell the whole class. Okay no problem pizza is easy. Dads were to teach their child how to fix something that is broken and has to stand up in front of the class tomorrow and tell them. This is where she was upset.... her father isn't around much and my fiance she has on occasionally calls dad works a 2nd shift. So she only gets to see him on weekends until his transfer comes. She was upset that she didn't have either of them to help her. I'm wondering what the hell is a teacher thinking given parent specific assignments when reality is we do not live in the 1800's. There are plenty of single parent households and something like this was a stupid move. I taught her how to fix the sink when its leaking but come on teach use your brain and don't ask this kind of stuff. The assignment was in her weekly newsletter so there was no misunderstanding on my daughters part. This is also a teacher who since a month into school has told the kids "girls play with girls, boys play with boys". I have complained about this because my daughters best friend is a boy so she is constantly being told to go play with other kids. The school has done....nothing of course.



    Rage on sister! I am raging with you! I grew up in a single parent household and I can't tell you how many times I would come home a mess because the teacher and/or other students would talk about "dad stuff". Um, my mom taught me how to do everything that a male could have taught me and then some!

     

    Your kid's teacher is an asshole.

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  • I am a teacher of young kids and this is ridiculous. If this is a public school and you don't have other options, then you need to contact the principal and let her know what this teacher is doing.




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  • If the school is doing nothing about it, go to the school board.
  • anjemonanjemon member
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    I agree, that whole assignment is total crap! It's good to learn to cook and fix stuff, but what's with assigning gender roles? Maybe my Dad is the better cook and Mom fixes everything. What do you do then? I would complain to the administration again. You daughter should be able to play with whoever she wants.
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  • sarahufl said:

    Nevermind the single parent angle (which is a big problem itself), but why do women have to cook and men fix things?!

    Seriously.



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  • That is so incredibly sexist and gross- women in the kitchen and men fixing things, really? I'd have a talk with the school ASAP.

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  • Uhhh WTF?  I'm not even super sensitive to gender related issues and I think this is totally fucked up.  And the part about girls with girls and boys with boys?  BULL-SHEEEIT.  I echo Ashley's question, is this a public school or like a private Jesusy one? 

    My FI is not very handy, and also travels a lot for work so he's not home a lot.  If we had a kid who had this assignment, would the kid fail because his/her dad was out of town and couldn't do it with him/her? 

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  • Is the teacher's name Ms. Kessler?

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  • I don't cook.  FH does.  I'm the one that built a raised garden bed in the backyard, made a headboard out of a door, and hung all the curtain rods in our new home.  If I'm required to teach a kid how to cook, they're going to learn how to make a damn fine PBJ.  If FH is required to teach a kid to fix something, they're going to learn how to re-code the TV remote to control another gadget.
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    This is some bullshit right there.


    Do you know if any other students/parents had concerns about these assignments or the teacher's other sexist practices? Maybe going to the principal or school board as a group would cause them to take more notice.
    I'm liking and quoting because I think this could be a really good idea. OP, if you're friends with other class parents maybe you can all voice objections together? Maybe there is a single parent or a same sex couple who have your same concerns and would be happy to voice them with you. Or just another Mom like the PP's who think this assignment was crap.
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  • As a fellow teacher, I can honestly say that while I understand the assignment, I think the teacher went about it the wrong way.  Is she a younger teacher or an older one who is so set in their ways that they just need to retire?  I teach 4th grade in a private Catholic school and we aren't even that backwards.

    Even when I taught Pre-K, I would have never of thought of assigning gender specific assignments.  I had actually had twins in my class who had two moms and for Father's Day, they made their gifts for their grandpas. 
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  • What the fucking fuck.
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  • Yeah this shit shit kills me. It is a public school and the next closest public school is too far away to get her to school and me to work on time. The teacher has been there for 10 years now. Tiny town with less than 3000 people in it so outside the box isn't exactly a concept. The school has even sent home flyers of different events during holidays that the local churches are having, so apparently seperation of church and state isn't high on their priority. Nothing against those who choose to be religious but baiting my child to go to different church just cause of a party seems ridiculous My transfer to a different job hopefully goes through so I can get her out of this district.
  • MagicInk said:

    My kindergartener came home crying after being given parent specific homework assignments this week. Moms were to teach their child how to make their favorite food and stand in front of the class yesterday and tell the whole class. Okay no problem pizza is easy. Dads were to teach their child how to fix something that is broken and has to stand up in front of the class tomorrow and tell them. This is where she was upset.... her father isn't around much and my fiance she has on occasionally calls dad works a 2nd shift. So she only gets to see him on weekends until his transfer comes. She was upset that she didn't have either of them to help her. I'm wondering what the hell is a teacher thinking given parent specific assignments when reality is we do not live in the 1800's. There are plenty of single parent households and something like this was a stupid move. I taught her how to fix the sink when its leaking but come on teach use your brain and don't ask this kind of stuff. The assignment was in her weekly newsletter so there was no misunderstanding on my daughters part. This is also a teacher who since a month into school has told the kids "girls play with girls, boys play with boys". I have complained about this because my daughters best friend is a boy so she is constantly being told to go play with other kids. The school has done....nothing of course.
    What the fucking fuck?

    What if a kid has two parents of the same gender? Ya know, like my kid will? Is my kid just not going to know how to fix a fucking thing? Just sit around helplessly.

    And what the fuck is girls play with girls, boys play with boys, bullshit? That so fucking stupid. Kids play with kids. What happens if a girl plays with a boy? Does she grow a penis? Become a lesbian? Suck his dick right there in the middle of class? I mean what the fucking fuck.

    I'd be raising hell with that school. Oh hell I fuck a lawyer, she'd be up there quoting some law about schools and discrimination. Have you tried the word "lawsuit" that tends to make people sit up and listen. 


    about peed myself laughing at the bolded... 
  • sal2015sal2015 member
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    I have nothing helpful to say except that I am disgusted by this. What a backwards and sexist school. That is not the way our future generations need to be educated! 
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    MagicInk said:

    What about kids with gay parents? Are Migicink's kid just SOL?

    They'll be able to cook. But if something breaks they're just gonna stand there and cry.

    Hell this teacher would probably call CPS on us for being dykes. 
    If this teacher had a problem with you and the wifey you could always use her girls only play with girls logic against her!

    But seriously this whole assignment is fucking shitty.
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  • lyndausvi said:

    sarahufl said:

    Nevermind the single parent angle (which is a big problem itself), but why do women have to cook and men fix things?!

    no shit.  In my household it's the complete opposite.  I can't cook for shit.  DH just hands over shit that needs to be fixed to me.  He just doesn't have a knack for that kind of stuff.  Cooking, well you all know, he's pretty damn good at that.
    I had a roommate years ago who was like 25 years old and ASTONISHED I knew how to use power tools. She bought some shelves she wanted to hang and asked if I knew any men who could do it. I said no, but that I would use my drill and do it. She was blown away that I knew how to use a drill and hang things.

    I have been doing "boy chores" since I was old enough to do them and my parents always taught me how to fix things (and how to cook!!)
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  • sarahufl said:

    lyndausvi said:

    sarahufl said:

    Nevermind the single parent angle (which is a big problem itself), but why do women have to cook and men fix things?!

    no shit.  In my household it's the complete opposite.  I can't cook for shit.  DH just hands over shit that needs to be fixed to me.  He just doesn't have a knack for that kind of stuff.  Cooking, well you all know, he's pretty damn good at that.
    I had a roommate years ago who was like 25 years old and ASTONISHED I knew how to use power tools. She bought some shelves she wanted to hang and asked if I knew any men who could do it. I said no, but that I would use my drill and do it. She was blown away that I knew how to use a drill and hang things.

    I have been doing "boy chores" since I was old enough to do them and my parents always taught me how to fix things (and how to cook!!)
    My father was never around growing to fix things or put things together. My mom and I did all that stuff; my brother too as he got older. He even wanted one of the tool boxes in the divorce and we laughed because we didn't even know if he knew how to use the stuff in it. I've never seen him fix anything.
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