Help, my 18 year old is getting married in January. I wanted opinions on if we should have a bachorlette party, wedding shower or couples wedding shower. I am leaning toward forgoing the bachorlette party because she is underage and may be uncomfortable. We also have the problem of all of our relatives will be out of town and there are only about 5 people that may be able to make any party, unless we plan one the day before the wedding. Any suggestions?