i am not sure how wrong this is, but if i type an individual letter to each person for a thank you and put in a nice card is this wrong? do i really have to hand write EVERY thank you? (we have a good number of them). just trying to get a feel of opinions (we did a lot of nonetraditional things with our wedding and it was fairly casual feel. please keep the comments positive even if you disagree (as i have read some very negative and mean responses on here). thanks for the ideas!