I'm going to wear a lace applique in my hair instead or a veil. Below is a picture of the "idea" and the one I bought to use placed on my hair. How should I keep it in place? Sometimes I find headbands pinch near my ears and elastics/ ribbons seem to slide up on the back of my head. If I don't attach the lace to a headband, elastic or ribbon, should I sew on of those clips like they use on a hair extension sew/ glue it onto a comb? Do you think a headband or ribbon would look prettier? Is there a way to keep an elastic headband or ribbon from sliding? Anybody else wearing an applique?